13 Aug 2026
In April 2026, as a part of our Girls’ School Exclusions project, we hosted ‘Beyond Netflix: the rise of misogynistic violence in school’, a roundtable exploring how sexual harms and violence — rooted in misogyny — drive school absenteeism and exclusions amongst girls, and how to challenge this at the school and wider systems level. We were joined by four experts who work to challenge discrimination and unmet needs girls face within education settings and beyond.
Rise of manosphere influences
Misogyny and sexual violence harms girls inside and outside of school, and this also intersects with racism. According to survey data, nearly one-third of girls do not feel safe from sexual harassment in school, 24% report unwanted sexual touching in school and 40% of those that witnessed sexual harassment in schools, say that it referenced race.1
Outside of school, online harm is a widespread and growing problem for girls, fuelled by misogynistic influencers.2 77% of girls and young women aged 7 – 21 have experienced online harm in the last year,3 including being coerced into sending nude images. Despite this epidemic, teachers have been found to be unable to identify problematic behaviours and are unprepared for the problem of growing misogyny.4
Flavia and Chelea joined us from Getaway Girls, an organisation dedicated to empowering girls and young women in Leeds, to shed light on these concerning trends.
From her experience co-producing Getaway Girls’ Thriving in Education – A Charter for Girls and Young Women, Chelea told us, “Many young women spoke about the impact of misogyny, sexism, and how harmful attitudes can affect their confidence and sense of belonging within education. They want schools to be places where these behaviours are challenged and not ignored”.
Flavia explained that current responses are “a stick-on plaster, thinking in the short-term with little bits of work with girls or boys in schools without looking at whole systems change.” While local services are at the forefront of tackling misogyny and instilling positive masculinity, she stressed that “systems change requires national level policy and strategy”.
Highlighting the importance of engagement with girls to create meaningful solutions, Chelea told us:
“Too often, decisions about education are made for young women rather than with them... If we want schools where girls and young women can truly thrive, we must continue to involve them in shaping their spaces.”
In addition to the Thriving in Education Charter, Getaway Girls have also co-produced an essential resource on online objectification.
School uniform policies and the hyperfocus on girls’ bodies
A 2024 Plan International UK survey found that girls and young women experience pressure around their appearance that leaves them feeling anxious, unhappy and not in control over decisions about their bodies. Girls identified school uniforms and dress codes as key factors contributing to their feeling less in control, and felt that their appearances were monitored far more than boys.5 Dress codes that hyperfocus on girls’ bodies have also been found to reproduce cultures of sexualisation and victim-blaming.6 26% of girls surveyed as part of a 2023 End Violence Against Women survey, reported receiving uncomfortable comments from teachers about their appearance.7
Julie from the Young Women’s Outreach Project, which supports girls and young women in Gateshead, joined us to speak about the impact of girls’ struggles with their appearance on their experiences of school. Julie told us that growing pressure to look and dress a certain way is affecting girls' confidence and wellbeing. She explained that anxiety about fitting in is increasingly feeding into girls’ absenteeism from school.
Julie and her team have heard from girls how schools are compounding their anxieties and punishing them for their appearance. These experiences have included:
- Male teachers measuring girls’ skirts with rulers;
- Strappy tops and skirts being described as distracting for male teachers;
- Girls feeling nervous to walk upstairs in their school skirts in front of male staff;
- Teachers commenting on the visibility of bras through school uniform;
- A teacher referring to a girl as young as 11 or 12 as “promiscuous”;
- Girls being excluded for their jewellery;
- A girl being pushed into absenteeism due to her eyebrow make-up.
Incidents like these have a significant impact on the level of trust and safety girls feel while at school, institutionalising a hyperfocus on girls’ bodies in ways that harm their confidence and self-worth.
The adultification of young Black women and girls
Adultification is a process “whereby children are perceived as more adult-like, responded to through a lens of ‘deviancy’, not acknowledged as ‘deserving’ victims”.8 This disproportionally impacts Black girls and leads to more severe disciplinary actions and reduced support.9
Ebinehita from Milk Honey Bees, a creative and expressive safe space for Black girls to flourish and put H.E.R (Healing, Empowerment and Resilience) first, shared her expertise on the role that racism plays in shaping Black girls’ experiences of sexualisation and adultification.
Ebinehita explained that “Black girls are seen as older, treated as less innocent and given more responsibilities. In the schooling system, Black girls are labelled as loud, aggressive instead of expressive, their emotions are punished instead of supported.” This adultification intersects directly with their experiences of sexualisation: “With school uniform, their bodies may just be a bit more developed, so they're more likely to get targeted by school policies.” Ebinehita added that this targeting can also be seen through the exclusionary punishments Black girls receive in response to their hairstyles.
As an example of the dehumanisation and adultification that Black girls experience, Ebinehita recounted the story of Child Q - a young Black girl from Hackney who was wrongly accused of carrying illegal drugs and subsequently subjected to a strip-search by metropolitan police officers whilst in school. Both the school and the police were complicit in racialised systemic abuse, which enabled adult professionals to strip-search a school aged girl without an appropriate adult present. The investigation that followed found that racism was likely to have been an ‘influencing factor’ in the officers’ actions and that if the girl had not been Black, then her experiences are unlikely to have been the same.10
In order to effectively challenge adultification, Ebinehita stressed that: '“Adultification needs to be thought about as a systemic issue, not an individual issue”.
Positive change requires adults to take accountability and create space for Black girls to be children:
"Black girls want adults to take accountability for their experiences... because for so long, [Black girls] have had to be accountable. These girls are children and deserve to be treated as children - we need to really protect the right of Black girls to be soft”.
This was the first roundtable in a series of four, each exploring a different driver of girls’ exclusions. The second roundtable, held in July, Double Disadvantage: Discrimination in the class - race, ethnicity & faith delved into the disproportionalities we see in girls’ experiences of exclusions as a result of racism and faith-based discrimination.
In October, we will be holding the final two sessions: A system in crisis: Girls’ experiences of mental health and SEND in school, and Punishing Parents: The criminalisation of absenteeism.
References
- End Violence Against Women, 2023, It’s #AboutTime
- End Violence Against Women, 2023, It’s #AboutTime; Hope not Hate, 2023, Andrew Tate; Over et al., 2025, Understanding the influence of online misogyny in schools from the perspective of teachers
- Girlguiding, 2022, Girls’ Attitudes Survey
- End Violence Against Women, 2023, It’s #AboutTime
- Plan International UK, The State of the Girls’ Rights in the UK 2024
- RCTN, 2020, Roll Down Your Skirt: How schools teach victim-blaming and rape culture through uniform checks
- End Violence Against Women, 2023, It’s #AboutTime
- Jahnine Davis, 2022, Adultification bias of black children: Q&A with Jahnine Davis
- Morris-Jarra & Iyere, 2025, See us, Hear us: The Perceptions and Wellbeing of Black girls in London Secondary Schools, Milk Honey Bees; Yannick Buditu, Adultification- The Black Secondary School Experience, The Black Curriculum.
- For more information about this case: City & Hackney Safeguarding Children Partnership, 2022, Local Child Safeguarding Practice Review: Child Q